Men Die, But Their Lessons Shouldn't

In Men Die, But Their Lessons Shouldn't, I’m sharing the truth about what it means to have a partner who doesn't just exist beside you, but genuinely prepares you for anything life throws your way. This isn’t just a book—this is my story and the lessons my Death Aware man has taught me, lessons that have empowered me to not only survive, but thrive, no matter what happens.

My man, Derrick, doesn’t hoard knowledge or keep me in the dark. He’s not content with just being the protector. He knows his time, his strength, and his presence are temporary, and he’s determined to give me everything he can while he’s still here. He teaches me to be strong, independent, and capable, ensuring that if anything happens to him, I’ll be ready to face the world on my own.

He doesn’t just carry a gun—he taught me how to shoot. He doesn’t just manage the finances—he’s shown me how to invest, save, and build wealth. He doesn’t just fight for me—he’s taught me self-defense and situational awareness. He doesn’t just lead the family—he’s given me leadership skills, so if he’s gone, our family doesn’t crumble.

Too many women get with men who can provide, but don’t teach them how to provide for themselves. Too many attach themselves to men who can protect, but don’t show them how to protect themselves. Derrick is different. He’s not just my protector, he’s my teacher, my guide, my pillar.

Derrick knows that life is uncertain. He understands that time is limited. That’s why he prepares me, makes sure that if something happens to him today, I don’t just survive—I THRIVE. This book is about the kind of love that isn’t just about today, but about creating strength for tomorrow.

This is for every woman who wants to be more than just a bystander in her own life. If you’re ready to stop just existing and start truly thriving, Men Die, But Their Lessons Shouldn't will show you how to build the strength, skills, and independence to thrive—whether your man is with you or not.Are you ready to be prepared for life’s uncertainties? Men Die, But Their Lessons Shouldn't is your guide to thriving when you’re truly ready.